Going back to the infamous Black Friday weekend... when I told him about things on my bucket list such as a threesome with 2 guys and me as well as anal sex, I found out he wanted to do them with me as well. It just "had not come up" was his answer. Mind you the anal sex was amazing as another blog spoke about, but still.... Why wait for me to bring it up?
Fast forward to this past weekend when I told him about an experience I had from part of my alternative lifestyle and he again said, great, so I can do that to you as well.
Ummmmmm WTF! I said you want to do that to me? You do that? Why did you not bring this up to me... His response was again that it just did not come up. We of course did it and anal sex the other night. Heaven! If I had only known about this a few mos ago...
Since I do not hold back I will go ahead and tell you that the experience was and has been fisting. I never ever in a million years thought I would ever do something that sounds barbaric. Do not knock it until you try it. Again - holy fists! It creates squirting and is just incredible if done right with someone who cares and will not jam their hand up you and create pain.
Try something new. Let yourself be free with the right partner to Explore. Experiment. Enjoy. There are no promises of tomorrow. There is only today for us to live our lives.
I am living life Large and In Charge. I hope you will join me.
Love Scarlet
